Master and servant – Triple7Treasures.com

For some women, power is the most potent aphrodisiac of all, where they can take command of their environment in ways they may not feel are possible in their normal lives. By commanding a man to perform certain acts, such as cunnilingus, she gains the extra pleasure of orgasm without the need to reciprocate. In a similar way, domination fantasies can focus on a certain person over whom the woman seeks to be powerful, making him beg or giving him a thorough spanking.

The same principle of power can work the other direction, where the woman is forced to do things against her will, yet rewarded with pleasure. Similarly, receiving discipline in this power relationship can be turn-on, where she gets spanking herself or is tied up and pleasured to her limit. By removing her responsibility from sex, she can lose any feelings associated with experiencing “guilty pleasures” or being a “naughty girl.”

Elizabeth of Denver wrote, “I may not have been wearing a black latex body suit or cracking a whip, but I felt like a dominatrix all the same. I put one of my shiny red pumps on the back of neck as he crouched down in front on me in worship and said, ‘roll over, meat puppet.’ He obeyed instantly. I was thrilled to have this power over a 6’4″ 220-pound man – too bad my older brothers never behaved this way when I was growing up! I crouched down and teased him by barely rubbing my pussy against his face. ‘Lick me, you fool, – slooowwwwly.’ He stuck out his long tongue and began delicately licking my outer labia. I was thrilled with the combined power and pleasure of this ritual – it was totally intoxicating.”

(Dr. Sadie Allison)